The way you describe your relationship isn’t a dictation of how the people in the relationship must behave.
I’m not aggressively anti-rule. Not anymore, at least, and I think I’m better for having a more nuanced position here.
This week – after a preface – I featured three guest posts that were originally on FetLife and addressed polyamory.
And man, did the reason I wanted to share them really come out.
Recently my choice of lifestyle has been attacked by multiple people on here. I’ve been called not only a whore for choosing to be polyamorous, but told I can’t satisfy my anchor, which is why he needs other women.