It’s another thing to spend as much time as it would take to answer the question to instead go out of your way to make sure someone else knows you’re not giving them the answer about something you find important…whether in software or feminism.
Sometimes even a simple game can help you understand.
Communicate with those you love. Tell them the truth about where you are, even if it’s a truth they don’t want to hear.
Maybe we aren’t as bad and worthless as we think we are.