Whenever we begin to love, battles are fought within our soul. Little wars of hope versus fear, skirmishes between logic and emotion. In the great sweep of things, […]
Emotional Self-Medication: Good bids, Bad bids, and Canceling Out
You can tell a lot about how a relationship is going (and how it’s going to go) by the emotional bids in the relationship. The better the ratio […]
A song to share.
Sometimes you stumble across a song and get bowled over. A song that is beautiful and heartbreaking and still somehow courageous. It doesn’t happen very often in a […]
Where I disagree with Dan Savage
[Edit: You should see this expansion post and clarification that will post 1/28 @ 0930 EST.] I disagree with Dan Savage on one major thing. I think that The […]
The Compendium Relationship Resource Post (Please add your resources in the comments)
Oh, crap, he’s still talking about relationships. Yeah, I am. First, I want to publicly express my gratitude and thankfulness to both friends and to the poly community […]
Sometimes a logical fallacy isn’t a fallacy when you’re talking about human interactions
The “sunk cost fallacy” (explanation here) is often held up as one way that normally rational people fall prey to silly, silly irrationality. And along those same lines, […]