When “physical touch” gets called “libido”, a whole different set of assumptions and judgements gets pulled into the mix.
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Remember that it’s you and those you love against the problem, not against each other.
A boundary only states what you are willing to do. The other person can do whatever they like. You’re simply controlling your own body and destiny.