Learn when your patterns of coping with relationships are toxic as hell.
There is nothing more corrosive to a relationship than not being honest about yourself.
When your significant other(s) come to you with brain weasels, no matter how crazy the brain weasel is, do not shame them for bringing up their brain weasels. Period.
It said “If you suspect that the way you were raised has had an effect on your ability to maintain healthy relationships, you’re probably right.” But I’m not entirely sure. Especially after actually taken the “attachment type” test that lay at the center of the article.