As the conversation heated up on the Book of Faces, I found myself explaining to a girlfriend why simply having a hierarchy in your relationships was seen as a bad thing by some folks.
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She’s a lot more awesome than she thinks she is. Maybe you are too.
Maybe we aren’t as bad and worthless as we think we are.
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The worst lies are the ones you don’t mean.
There is nothing more corrosive to a relationship than not being honest about yourself.
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“But he isn’t bad ALL the time”
“If I didn’t love him, I wouldn’t put up with everything that he does.” That sentence horrifies me, and I’ve heard it too fucking many times in my […]
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Life is Pain, Princess. Choose Love Anyway.
“You’ve been hurt, right?” I nodded, fogged by sleep. “In relationships? Sure.” She paused, collecting her courage. “Then why do you keep seeking out relationships?” I gave her […]
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Remember that everyone’s illogical sometimes. Even (gasp!) me.
When someone acts – especially temporarily – in a way that doesn’t mesh with either what they say or how they normally behave, it’s important to not judge them […]