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The Inevitable Futility of Wishing on Stars
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The Inevitable Futility of Wishing on Stars

Posted on: February 6, 2021February 6, 2021

It doesn’t matter how much you wish. The narcissist will not change. It’s up to you.

The Context of Abusive Statements
business / relationships

The Context of Abusive Statements

Posted on: June 19, 2020June 21, 2020

When is an abusive statement not an abusive statement?

We Can Hurt the Ones We Love When Recovering From Abuse
advice / relationships

We Can Hurt the Ones We Love When Recovering From Abuse

Posted on: March 18, 2020March 18, 2020

When recovering from abuse – particularly abuse from someone using narcissistic techniques – it’s common for the recovering person to end up hurting the people who are in the healthiest relationships with them.

They Want You To Think You’re Alone. You’re Not.
advice / relationships

They Want You To Think You’re Alone. You’re Not.

Posted on: March 13, 2020May 31, 2021

Abusers don’t just thrive on physical isolation. They train you to isolate yourself.

Advice for When You Start To Establish Boundaries With A Narcissist
relationships

Advice for When You Start To Establish Boundaries With A Narcissist

Posted on: January 27, 2020March 9, 2020

Advice for When You Start To Establish Boundaries With A Narcissist
(or someone with narcissistic behaviors)

Narcissistic Behaviors – A Video Playlist
relationships

Narcissistic Behaviors – A Video Playlist

Posted on: January 9, 2019December 31, 2018

I’ve written about narcissists (and narcissistic behaviors) in relationships, oh, a few times before now. And it’s important to remember the dangers of emotional self-diagnosis, particularly when we’re […]

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