They’re the if-then-else statements of relationships.
relationships
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You can’t respect yourself if you don’t know yourself… and tell others.
You’ll usually see this quotation weaponized after a breakup: “Respect yourself. If you don’t, others won’t either.” I say that you’ll see it “weaponized” because in those […]
relationships
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The difference between boundaries and rules
Boundaries are very, very different from both threats and rules.
conventions / sexual harassment
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We Don’t Need To Police Thoughts. Actions and Statements Are A Different Matter Entirely.
The last several years have been … interesting… in nerd and geek circles. We’ve been dealing with harassment and “fake geeks”, sexism in our professional literature, the deeply […]
communication / relationships
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The difference between threats and boundaries.
There is a difference between a boundary and a threat – and when someone uses the two interchangeably, it says more about them than it does about the […]