relationships

The Validity of Libido as a Love Language

When “physical touch” gets called “libido”, a whole different set of assumptions and judgements gets pulled into the mix.

“Are you actually saying that you want a live elephant to eat salmon from my anus?” might be a legitimate question sometimes…

TL;DR: It’s a bad idea. Seriously. Here’s why.

Remember that it’s you and those you love against the problem, not against each other.

We almost never talk about the often-subtle toxic work relationships, even though these are the relationships that dominate most of our lives.

A boundary only states what you are willing to do. The other person can do whatever they like. You’re simply controlling your own body and destiny.