“Mashable Watercooler” posted a video today called “Are You Built For Monogamy?”. The whole thing is crap. Dr. Roshini Raj (the presenter) is a board certified gastroenterologist. Which […]
Relationships In The New Year
To get started, let’s dismiss a quick thought about polyamory: The idea that poly people are more “evolved” is a myth. It’s a stupid claim, and anyone who […]
Anchors, Primaries, and Unidirectional Flows of Relationships
I really enjoy delving into the aspects that we don’t question around relationships. The problem then is that there aren’t really any good terms – or sometimes even concepts – […]
There’s A Dark Side to Relationship Anarchy If You’re Not Careful
[EDIT: The link to an explanation to RA has been changed due to there being questions about the quality of the person giving the explanation. It now points […]
Compersion: The Skill You Absolutely Need In Your Relationship(s).
If there’s one thing that the polyamorous community does that everyone needs to adopt, it’s compersion. Here’s the definition, from morethantwo.com: A feeling of joy when a partner […]
Deliberateness is not easy… but it is not hard either
The efforts in creating a safe space at Penguicon all have one characteristic – they’re about making the unconscious deliberate. That is also the feature that I appreciate […]