Sometimes even a simple game can help you understand.
Street Fighter With Spoons
Let’s talk about spoon theory (or matchstick theory, which is a variant of the same thing). Recently, someone said to my love that spoon theory sounded a lot […]
You cannot neglect yourself.
There’s a special kind of horror if you are the person who does not want to upset anyone else. Photo by Joshua Rawson-Harris on Unsplash It does not […]
I’ll take her fries, too: I guest blogged about my fraught relationship with food.
I guest blogged over at “One Panic Attack at a Time“, a blog that my darling has started focusing on personal stories of living with anxiety and other […]
Identifying the Common Shitty Squirrel behavior
I posted this cartoon from Poorly Drawn Lines on social media yesterday with the comment “I know people whose significant others are like this.” And… yeah. I do […]
Running the abuser on a separate mental loop – and how that hurts the ones who care
Something happens when you’re in an abusive1 (or otherwise awful) relationship. You learn to cope. It’s especially effective (but does not require) when the abuser has succeeded […]