I guest blogged over at “One Panic Attack at a Time“, a blog that my darling has started focusing on personal stories of living with anxiety and other […]
Identifying the Common Shitty Squirrel behavior
I posted this cartoon from Poorly Drawn Lines on social media yesterday with the comment “I know people whose significant others are like this.” And… yeah. I do […]
Running the abuser on a separate mental loop – and how that hurts the ones who care
Something happens when you’re in an abusive1 (or otherwise awful) relationship. You learn to cope. It’s especially effective (but does not require) when the abuser has succeeded […]
If you walk on eggshells, sooner or later they’re gonna break.
It is a sign of a healthy relationship that you consider your partner(s) feelings. It is a sign of a toxic relationship that you walk on eggshells worrying […]
Everyone has baggage, whether it’s in the DSM or not.
If you are old enough to read this, you have baggage. If you are old enough to read this, you have damage. If you are old enough to […]
The simple two-word fix to “You’re Mine” in relationships
An ex of mine would whisper “You’re mine.” in my ear, and I ‘d get pleasurable goosebumps, and whisper it right back. It was what I wanted, after […]