A very religious person once told me: “Of course my religion sounds silly when you just describe it. All religions do. That’s why it takes faith.” That’s […]
A banner year in the Bender household: Abuse isn’t the answer to gun violence
There are two terrifying ideas that have risen out of the latest school shooting. The first, that women are somehow responsible for the feels of a guy who’s […]
They didn’t say hello. They must have been smuggling children.
The grave offense happened at a gas station: A greeting to strangers with children, and no answer. Seriously. That was it. An acquaintance on Facebook said they asked […]
Help raise a statue to a real American hero from the 1800’s.
TL;DR: If you’re reading this on the fourth, give now at https://stevesaus.com/s/96-zj. Regardless of when you’re reading this, read about Mr. Goodridge over at Medium. It’s important to […]
The simple three-step plan to being a man in today’s world.
Fellow men! If you’re confused about your place in the world in the #metoo era, if you’re worried about whether you can flirt with a woman, if you […]
“He’s got one of those safewords…”
“Clearly, he’s got one of those safewords.” She meant me, since I had a bit of knowledge about a kinky subject. Though said with a laugh, it was […]