There is a difference between a boundary and a threat – and when someone uses the two interchangeably, it says more about them than it does about the […]
advice / emotion / relationships
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Helping Others To Help Yourself
As some of you know, I’ve had some difficulties in my life. In particular, the ones I’ve brought on myself. I’ve learned from them – especially thanks to […]
relationships
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The Axis of Assumption: Exploding Embedded Relationship Concepts
Recently Ferrett said some really smart things about axes of introversion. Really, if you’ve not seen it, take a look – it’s been a really great starting point […]
relationships
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Stop Goofing Around On The Internet And Go Thank Your Old Teachers. Now.
Not actually my teacher I had a horrible physics teacher in high school. I was reminded of him when I visited my parents; they only remembered that I […]
politics / relationships
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Ultimatums and Blackmailing
Whenever you say “If X doesn’t happen, Y won’t happen” – or for that matter, “If X happens, Y will happen” – then you have issued an ultimatum. […]
publishing / relationships
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So You’ve Been Rejected: Now What?
This is one of those posts that require me to point out the "Artistic License" link above. I’m sharing this because after I wrote it, I realized that […]