I have epiphanies on a fairly regular basis.
This… is not as great a quality as it sounds.
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I really like you, but I have to break up with you before I don’t.
(I gotta start with this: This post isn’t about you. Really.) Sometimes you get stuck in a negative loop with another person. It doesn’t have to be anybody’s […]
communication / relationships
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It’s not funny: Seeing gaslighting in a single Facebook post
It’s not overthinking if it’s important. I tend to find things funny if they’re slapstick or if they’re satire. Give me absurdity, or give me punching up. Or […]
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Taking notes to fix your relationship
Sometimes I advise people to take notes in their relationships in order to keep track of behaviors that aren’t great or need improvement. This can be really useful… […]
advice / relationships
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“But he isn’t bad ALL the time”
“If I didn’t love him, I wouldn’t put up with everything that he does.” That sentence horrifies me, and I’ve heard it too fucking many times in my […]
advice / relationships
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Life is Pain, Princess. Choose Love Anyway.
“You’ve been hurt, right?” I nodded, fogged by sleep. “In relationships? Sure.” She paused, collecting her courage. “Then why do you keep seeking out relationships?” I gave her […]