I recently had an old friend mock me for sharing a link from an aggregator blog (it was boingboing; that’s beside the point). He had a point…and he […]
How to be a social butterfly when you’re not
I was recently described as a “social butterfly” by a new acquaintance. They were – to my surprise – serious. They didn’t realize that I’m really quite introverted, […]
Understanding and forgiveness are two way streets. Unless you’re a jerk.
I said it before, and I stand by it: the most important question on OKCupid is Would you rather date someone who almost never made a mistake but […]
Even if it’s not a “fuck yes”, it damn well still better be a yes.
I have had to remind people – women, let’s just go ahead and acknowledge that it’s only been women – that “marital rape” is both morally and legally […]
There’s always a price. Acknowledge it. Deal with it. And maybe change your life.
There’s always a price. The first decision is: Will you pay it?
We are not things. Intent matters.
“It doesn’t matter what someone believes. It’s how they act that matters.” Sometimes the most awful things are hidden behind bits of truth. Because ultimately, behavior does matter. […]