I encountered this banner at a “health fair” at my employer. The banner, from Innovision, Inc (which has the ominous URL “FatalVision.com“) promoted being aware of your alcohol […]
What to do when you’ve heard that you offended someone.
While inspired by John Ringo’s “I’ve never met you so I couldn’t have harassed you, oh wait I did meet you but I didn’t harass you, well, I […]
The important news about Harvey Weinstein isn’t what he did.
The important news about Harvey Weinstein isn’t what he did. Don’t get me wrong – what he did (and really, is there any point in putting “allegedly”?) is […]
Newsflash: If you have to compare your actions to worse people, you are worse people.
“But I’m not racist! I didn’t do anything as bad as…” And then comes the list of far worse things, which the person I’m talking to would never, […]
It isn’t how you screw up as a feminist. It’s how you deal with screwing up.
There’s already a lot of digital ink being spilled about Joss Whedon’s alleged infidelities while married to his ex-wife. The Mary Sue in particular has done a good […]
When it’s not just sexist
I remember my initial sexism training when I was in the military, decades ago. I remember people being “confused” about when a compliment was a compliment and when […]