“But I’m not racist! I didn’t do anything as bad as…” And then comes the list of far worse things, which the person I’m talking to would never, […]
It isn’t how you screw up as a feminist. It’s how you deal with screwing up.
There’s already a lot of digital ink being spilled about Joss Whedon’s alleged infidelities while married to his ex-wife. The Mary Sue in particular has done a good […]
When it’s not just sexist
I remember my initial sexism training when I was in the military, decades ago. I remember people being “confused” about when a compliment was a compliment and when […]
Finding the Hidden Sexism In Fluidbonding – a personal adventure
Warning for the prudish: Some mild but blunt discussion about doing adult things follows. (Hi to all the perverts who just paid attention!) I wasn’t introduced to the […]
What Can We Do To Change the Passitivity Problem?
Monday I talked about how women are told to always agree with men. Yesterday I told you about a time I screwed up when communicating with a woman […]
Should I Tell A Woman To Smile? #WhyIsThisStillBeingDone
I’m surprised this still needs to be explained, but judging from certain events and some of the comments on the Facebook post, it does. Are you thinking of […]