Small note: I used donotlink.com for linking to the sexist crap, but as always, watch out for the comments on those sites. Originally, I didn’t think there was […]
How To Get Out of the Friend Zone… and Just Be A Friend, You Douchebag.
I got a lot of "you’re a great friend" and "I love you like a brother" while I was in my teens and twenties. I probably described it […]
Diversity in our fiction should be a given, not something worthy of praise
If you’ve ever cared for a small child, you know this. Life starts out with everyone clapping when you take a poo and goes downhill from there. – […]
You’re Always On Stage
You’ve probably heard of someone whose private remarks impacted their professional life. We could be talking about an (ex) NBA owner, a speculative fiction editor (or writer), or […]
An Open Letter To White Dudes From A White Dude (Or The Problems Of Being An Ally)
No. Really, I’m pretty pasty-white. An Open Letter To White Dudes From A White Dude Look, it’s fucking scary. Not that women are doing things or minorities are […]
Summarizing My Thoughts On Writing For A Professional Journal For A Professional Organization (For Reference)
This really is the core issue for anyone still wanting to “debate” anything around last year’s controversy about the SFWA Bulletin or the people who are trying to […]