I’ve written about narcissists (and narcissistic behaviors) in relationships, oh, a few times before now. And it’s important to remember the dangers of emotional self-diagnosis, particularly when we’re […]
Bob should have watered them himself, or: Everyone (re)learns from their mistakes
I have epiphanies on a fairly regular basis.
This… is not as great a quality as it sounds.
I really like you, but I have to break up with you before I don’t.
(I gotta start with this: This post isn’t about you. Really.) Sometimes you get stuck in a negative loop with another person. It doesn’t have to be anybody’s […]
“But he isn’t bad ALL the time”
“If I didn’t love him, I wouldn’t put up with everything that he does.” That sentence horrifies me, and I’ve heard it too fucking many times in my […]
Life is Pain, Princess. Choose Love Anyway.
“You’ve been hurt, right?” I nodded, fogged by sleep. “In relationships? Sure.” She paused, collecting her courage. “Then why do you keep seeking out relationships?” I gave her […]
Learn that you’re not going to change thier mind.
One of the hardest things for me to learn was that some people are going to think whatever they’re going to think about you no matter what you […]