An ex of mine would whisper “You’re mine.” in my ear, and I ‘d get pleasurable goosebumps, and whisper it right back. It was what I wanted, after […]
The day after the trauma is the day before hope
Holy Saturday is the bleakest day in the Christian calendar, and it is important… even if you’re not Christian.
Because it’s a powerful story about everyday life.
Board Game Review: Sons of Anarchy: Men of Mayhem
Last weekend I got the chance to play the Sons of Anarchy game again with some friends, and realized that I’d not actually told y’all about how much […]
What Can We Do To Change the Passitivity Problem?
Monday I talked about how women are told to always agree with men. Yesterday I told you about a time I screwed up when communicating with a woman […]
An example of gender, power, and privilege that happened to me, and how I tried to make it right
This conversation really happened to me on a dating site, to me. I’ve changed some details, of course. I’m sharing it partially because my amour says it shows […]
Highlighting the issues that happen in all relationships
Everyone can learn a lot from polyamorous folks. It’s not that polyamorous relationships are more “evolved” or “better”; it’s that relationships are relationships, and that good skills that […]